I’m Sick of Sick Posts on Facebook

It seems to me that the tirade of sanctimonious  – and sometimes sickening – posts on facebook is getting heavier of late. Not only do these really irritate me, but I also fail to see the point of them.

To give you some examples of what has annoyed me recently, try these:

The first one was a picture of what was obviously a very late aborted baby laying in the hands of a surgeon. Yes a very sad picture, but did I want to come across that while looking through my facebook timeline? No. I bloody well didn’t. The oddest thing about this was that the person who shared it was commenting “this is horrible picture and shouldn’t be on facebook”. Well don’t hit the flippin’ share button then!

The second picture was (yet another) one of these animal cruelty pictures. This time it looked as if a dog had a really nasty injury to its mouth and there was blood everywhere. Thanks for that – just what I wanted to see, especially as my 7-year old was looking over my shoulder.

Apart from the fact that these pictures really annoy me, I also have to ask; do the people posting them, sharing them and making some self-righteous comment about then actually know the provenance of these photos? Do they know where they come from? Was the baby aborted to save the mother, who subsequently then had to suffer the virtual loss of a child? Was the baby aborted because it was already dead? Was this photo picked up from a medical journal or a memo circulated to paediatric surgeons? Is the picture a fake?

In the photo of the dog I noticed that the background didn’t seem to be that of a domestic home, due to the clinical-looking wall and ceiling tiles. Also the dog had a nice big full bowl of food – not a usual practice for animal abusers. Maybe this was an animal hospital and the dog had a wound that had reopened? Maybe the dog had fallen? Who knows? Again, I wonder if the picture is either fake or taken out of context.

What I do know is that people should perhaps engage their brains before they jump on the social bandwagon and start condemning something they actually know diddly squat about.

If you are a person who loves to share these types of picture, think about this: Perhaps these animal abuse photos are actually designed to be circulated around the Internet by the abusers themselves and by re-posting them you may be actually supporting what you think you are condemning. Perhaps the animals are abused for the very reason these photos can be taken. There are sick people out there who do thrive on the instant “fame” such actions can result in: “I put this picture out on facebook and it got shared 100,000 times…” Think about it.

Do these re-posters live by morals that are above the rest of us?

I admit that I will re-post environmental articles that I feel may be of interest to others or that I feel strongly about. But at least I can say that I make every effort that is feasible to live a sustainable life (apart from the amount of travelling I do, but that’s for work and also something I’m trying to change). My point is: these people who are so shocked at pictures of animal cruelty, are they vegetarians? Do they eat organic meat? Do they know where their meat comes from and that the livestock is kept in conditions that do not invoke any suffering? Do they worry about palm oil and the effect that has on wildlife around the world? Maybe some do – but not many.

When I post something up on facebook, I keep it clean and I would definitely not want to shock someone with anything I post. Besides, shock tactics have rarely been proven to work.

Additionally, these pictures are not informing me of something I’m ignorant to. I know late abortions are happening, I know animals are mistreated. I don’t need nasty pictures on facebook to remind me of this.

If all of these photos came with a link to donate to a relevant charity, a petition to lobby the government or some other means of making them relevant and useful, then fair enough. But the majority of them don’t. They are just sad people wallowing in a sad world they feel they must impose on the rest of us.

I could pull a million sick photos off the Internet and circulate them around my social media networks, but why would I want to. Why do others want to?

It reminds me of a video I watched when I was younger that showed people dying in a multitude of different ways. The intro to this video said something like “we have brought you this film because we want you to see the futility of killing”, or some other crap along those lines. What they should have said was, “we bring you this video because you’re sick bastards who enjoy watching others die, but we can’t actually say that, so we have to pretend this is for pious reasons instead”. What a load of nonsense.

If there was no harm in circulating these photos, then fair enough, but many people look at facebook with their kids in the room, or are just looking to connect with friends or find a funny little youtube clip to watch.

I will admit that I am as fascinated by the macabre as the next man and that when a BBC News reporter says, “some of the scenes you about to witness may be disturbing”, I feel even more compelled to watch. But that’s my choice and I get warned beforehand. Having nasty photos sprung on me when I’m just looking for some facebook funnies isn’t… well… funny.

Re-post this is you agree… Blagh!

GR

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  1. #1 by Marion Dupont on February 20, 2012 - 4:59 pm

    I completely agree! Smart post!

    • #2 by Gareth Eynon on February 21, 2012 - 7:40 am

      Thanks a lot. Not so much smart, as just from the heart.

  2. #3 by Las Vegas Ad Agency on March 9, 2012 - 3:28 am

    I’m sick of Facebook altogether. I’ve been using Twitter a lot lately. Interesting post…despiste the unsettling subject matter.

  3. #4 by Jen Willis on August 16, 2012 - 10:50 am

    Very important post and message. I hope you manage to keep pounding this home to any face book users who will pay attention. I hate opening up my page to see some distressing pictures of sad and wounded animals – it upsets me for days. I became veggie as I cant stand the thought of an animal afraid or hurt. I support charities when I can. I know it goes on and I dont need to see graphic images to convince me it happens. I think your point about showing the pictures actually encouraging people to do this and take more pictures is a really valid one.

    • #5 by Gareth Eynon on August 18, 2012 - 7:35 am

      Thanks for commenting Jen.

      I don’t know how many people will pay attention, but at least I think a few of my friends did, as these photos do seem to have dropped off my account recently – this was probably helped by a few ‘unfriend’ button pushes too.

  4. #6 by thorns4roses on March 5, 2013 - 10:04 pm

    I know I am here over a year after this post but am having the same sentiments with Facebook friends posting such horrific and graphic pictures of animals being abused. I’ve about had it!! Before deactivating my Facebook account Saturday night, I had a few choice words with a long-time friend who repeatedly does this. The scenario is that you’re having a wonderful evening and just received a post from a friend who now has in her possession kittens I rescued on 9-11-12. We exchange many comments and share more pictures. My heart is glowing and then I run across these horrific animal abuse pictures being posted by a friend in the name of bringing awareness to animal cruelty. I’ve had a conversation in the past with this same person on showing us what to do, give us a petition to sign with some verbiage . . . not just do this for the sake of “no sake.”

    Thanks for the post…I re-blogged as it is exactly what I needed to read and maybe later post on Facebook when I reactivate my account.

    • #7 by Gareth Eynon on March 7, 2013 - 9:48 am

      Thanks for your comments and reblogging this post. Due to some friend culling I got rid of these offensive posts, but they seem to have now been replaced by stupid ‘test your intelligence’ photos, overly sloppy sentimental messages or pics of cats with quotes; eeuuk!

      • #8 by advicefromgary on March 7, 2013 - 7:05 pm

        This was a great post, and it so happens that I entirely agree with you on this one. I hate those graphic pictures that some of these folks post, c’mon, Everything from a dead baby, to terrible pics of maimed animals? Why? One can get their message across if they just explained the cause, and how much of the donations actually go towards the cause. Wow, great article.

        On Thu, Mar 7, 2013 at 1:48 AM, The Green Review wrote:

        > ** > Gareth Eynon commented: “Thanks for your comments and reblogging this > post. Due to some friend culling I got rid of these offensive posts, but > they seem to have now been replaced by stupid ‘test your intelligence’ > photos, overly sloppy sentimental messages or pics of cats with qu” >

  5. #9 by advicefromgary on March 7, 2013 - 6:25 am

    I loved this article, and I do believe that “I” believe in the same way. Of all the bad things that are shared and said on FB, we certainly do not need the pics. I have see bad pics as well and even hate messages, this is not the forum for this type of activity. I agree with you totally, and I also want to thank you for a great and “Spot On” article!!!!

    • #10 by Gareth Eynon on March 7, 2013 - 9:45 am

      Thanks for your kind comments. It’s great to see I’m not alone. I sorted this little problem with some surgical ‘friend’ culling.

  6. #11 by thorns4roses on March 7, 2013 - 7:20 pm

    ” they seem to have now been replaced by stupid ‘test your intelligence’ > photos, overly sloppy sentimental messages or pics of cats with qu” >

    It seems that you might not only object to the horrific posts on animal abuse but also to innocent sentimental messages or pictures of cats. I personally do not object to any posts on FB unless they are profane or related to graphic pictures of abuse to animals and/or people. I’m a cat lover!

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